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Winter Lovin’

The worst part about being single in the during the holidays  (aside from pretending to be happy at parties and gatherings) is not having a warm body next to you when you wake up on a cold, winter morning. Even if you’re generally content with singlehood, let’s face it.  It’s just better if you have someone to snuggle up with. Who can’t use the body heat? Especially if he has nice arms. Studies have shown cuddling is good for you. There are even cuddle party events out there (I think that’s taking it too far).

If you’re totally fine with being alone during winter, then this post isn’t for you. But if you would rather have a warm body next to you than not, keep reading. Honor your needs and desires, and grab a wintertime boo.

There’s nothing wrong with having a seasonal boyfriend or girlfriend. Many people in our lives are only there for a season, anyway. Why not have that special person that you can hang out with, have fun, and snuggle up with in front of the fireplace (or space heater)? By the time spring returns, you’ll be flirty and frivolous again, so make the best of winter and get a snuggle buddy!

So tell me. Do you have a winter boyfriend or girlfriend?

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Martha Stewart is so hip-hop

Posted under: Hip Hop, Hip Hop, Homebody

Martha Stewart is one of my idols. My goal in life is to be hip hop’s version of Martha Stewart (minus the prison sentence, god willing). So when I saw this quote from Martha Stewart on BV Buzz, my soul was touched.

“I like rap. We play rap. Oh yeah! When you come to the show you’ll see. Rap is fabulous! And it’s the liveliest thing for the audience. Rap is big.”

-Martha Stewart on rap music

Other reasons why Martha Stewart is hip hop? She’s been to prison. It’s a rite of passage for hip hop stars to go to jail. Ask Lil Wayne, TI, Foxy, Lil Kim, Remy Ma. Obviously Martha Stewart isn’t a rapper, but she’s been incarcerated, thus earning a ghetto pass. Technically, Martha Stewart is harder than the average everyday wannabe thug, who’s likely too scared to do time.

There’s also the beef factor. What’s more hip-hop than beef with the competition? When asked about Rachel Ray, Martha Stewart went in:

“She’s – more of an entertainer than she is, with her bubbly personality, than she is a teacher, like me. That’s not what she’s professing to be.”

-Martha Stewart on Rachel Ray

Martha’s basically saying, “this bitch ain’t on my level son!” I can imagine her playing 50 Cent “Many Men” in the background while baking cupcakes. Rachel Ray can’t bake, btw. She knows she can’t eff with Martha!

“Her skill set is far beyond mine. That’s simply the reality of it. That doesn’t mean that what I do isn’t important, too … I don’t consider it needling. I really just think she’s being honest,” Ray says. “She does have a better skill set than I do when it comes to producing a beautiful, perfect, high-quality meal. I’d rather eat Martha’s than mine, too.”

-Rachel Ray’s response to Martha’s comments

This is as good as any 50 Cent vs. Game/Rick Ross/Fat Joe/Jadakiss beef. Rachel and Martha need to battle it out, may the best domestic goddess win. Cook off!

*Wanna be starting something, wanna be starting something*

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How do you store jewelry?

My jewelry box consists of a plastic, shoebox sized container with a mishmash of necklaces, bracelets,  and earrings. This is trifling, as I have had to deal with damaged/broken jewelry more than I care to share. It would be much better to have a home for my jewelry that is pretty and makes everything easier to find. Something like this:

I want to do better, ya’ll. How do you store jewelry? Are you like me and just toss it in a clear box, or do you take the care to use a jewelry holder?

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Arepas with Cheese and Corn

Posted under: Food, Homebody

One of my goals is life as a young woman is to completely master my grandmother’s hot water cornbread recipe. Myself and others in my family try our hand at it, but it just doesn’t taste the same as hers. My grandmother has been making hot water cornbread for decades so she has it down to a science, but I think the secret ingredient is music and sound. When she’s cooking, she’s usually humming a tune, or listening to the radio. Being a younger version of my grandma, I listen to my Imeem playlist, and sing and dance while cooking. And I tell you, it never fails to make my food taste better. That’s the soul of food, the music. 

When I found the recipe for Arepas with Cheese and Corn, it reminded me a lot of my grandmother’s hot water cornbread. Arepas are native to Venezuela, and are described as a cornmeal-bread. They’re very similar to the El Salvadorian pupusa, the American pancake, or even the French crepe. It’s always interesting to me the similarity of dishes across different countries and cultures. It says a lot about migration and history, and reminds us of how we’re all the same, but different. I can’t wait to make arepas myself and share it with my grandma. It will be my twist on her classic.

Ok, enough reflection. Here’s the recipe! 

 

 

1 cup yellow cornmeal, finely ground

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 cup grated Cheddar or Monterey Jack cheese

1 cup milk

2 tablespoons butter, more for serving, optional

1/2 cup fresh sweet corn kernels, or frozen kernels, thawed

1/4 cup chopped scallion

1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro

1 small serrano or jalapeño chili, seeded and minced, optional

3 tablespoons corn, canola, grapeseed or other neutral oil

Cooked black beans or vegetables or sour cream for stuffing, optional.

HipHopMuse’s note: if possible, use a cast-iron skillet. It makes the difference, trust me. 

 

 

1. Put cornmeal in a large bowl with salt and cheese. Put milk in a small saucepan over medium-low heat until steam rises, then add butter and stir until melted. Remove from heat and stir into cornmeal mixture until a thick batter is formed. Fold in the corn kernels, scallion, cilantro and chili if using.

2. Let batter rest until it thickens into a soft dough, about 15 minutes. Gently form 3- to 4-inch balls from mixture and flatten with palm of your hand to a 1/2-inch-thick disk. (You can cover and refrigerate disks for a few hours if you like.)

3. Heat oil in a large skillet and cook arepas, working in batches, until golden brown, about 5 minutes, then flip and cook for another 3 minutes on other side. When all arepas are cooked and cool enough to handle, carefully slice them through the middle. If desired, serve with butter or stuff with beans, vegetables or sour cream.

Yield: 8 to 12 arepas.

 

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Ice, Ice Baby

Posted under: Fashion & Beauty, Homebody

There’s nothing worse than being out and about, thinking you’re cute…until you stop in the mirror and see a big ass zit staring back at you. Eek!

What to do? You’re not at home, you don’t have an arsenal of creams and potions at your disposal. First, take a breath. Wooozah. Next, stop at the nearest food place and grab a cup of ice.

Ice? Yes! Grab an ice cube and put it on the zit to soothe the swelling. I swear by this. Once upon a time, my skin broke out badly for the good part of a year. I went to a facialist who advised me to rub an ice cube over my face every morning and night after washing my face but before moisturizing. And voila, not only did the tone and texture of my skin improve, but the intensity and duration of my breakouts decreased. Some say that ice makes your skin firmer, too.  Home remedies ftw!

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Healthy Springtime Treat: Mango Salad

Posted under: Food, Homebody

Mango salad is one of my favorite warm weather treats. A tantalizing mix of mango, chile-salt and lime juice, I usually cop this from one of the Mexican street vendors spotted around town in a plastic ziploc bag for a couple of dollars. It’s cooling and refreshing while teasing my tastebuds with a mix of sweet, salty, heat, and zest. 

Want to make this yourself? You’ll need:

1 mango

Juice of 1 lime

1/4 tsp dried chile powder

1/4 tsp salt

(Yields 1 serving, 2 if you’re sharing. I’m a single girl, I cook for one)

1. Cut mango into desired size. I found this helpful video on youtube on the best way to cut a mango (cause my ish doesn’t look so neat). Getting around the stone in the middle can be a little tricky. 

2. Cut your lime in half, squeeze the juice of the lime over the mango. Try to resist the desire to eat it before seasoning. 

3. Combine chile powder and salt together in a small bowl, making sure to smash together with your fingertips. This step is essential because the chile powder and salt need to be completely immersed to achieve maximum results. 

4. Top mango-lime mixture with chile-salt seasoning. You can throw it in a little baggie and squish it around to distribute everything evenly, or you can lightly sprinkle the mango with the seasoning to give it a dusting of flavor. 

5. Enjoy! 

The beauty of this dish is that it can be tailored to your liking. Tyler Florence added jicama to his mango salad on the Food Channel. Some people like to use red pepper flakes instead of dried chile powder. I’ve also seen mango salad topped with cilantro, and I’ve seen red onion, green onion, and even avocado thrown into the mix. I encourage you to tweak it to your liking. 

Shopping tip: Mangos are typically in season from late April to September. When selecting mangos, look for ones with a reddish blush to them. The red mangos are ripe. The redder, the sweeter. If they’re mostly green, they’re not ripe yet and will not be as sweet.

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Get Your Space Right: Comic Book Shelves

Posted under: Homebody

I’ve been living in my new apartment nearly 6 months, and I’m finally starting to decorate. A friend and I were discussing innovative and creative ways to add character to your space, and he sent me a link to these crazy shelves spotted on Kanye’s blog. 

These Comic Book shelves by Oscar Nunez are oddly dope. The shape isn’t typical of a shelving unit, and I seriously doubt it would be able to hold more than a few small books. But its a quirky way to add something to bare walls to hold stuff like figurines and knick knacks

 

 

    

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