These two are giving me an Ike & Tina vibe...

Urban blogs are buzzing with the news that Mary J. Blige hauled off and punched her husband Kendu in the face at her album release party at M2 Lounge in NYC the other night. Supposedly he was flirting with other women at the party, and she got pissed. Mary was probably justified in feeling disrespected at Kendu’s actions, but violence in relationships is not okay, even where the woman is the aggressor.

While it was wrong for Mary to go Elin Woods on her man, her displeasure at his actions is understandable. It’s disrespectful for a guy to openly flirt with other women in the presence of his significant other. It’s humiliating to her, and shows that he doesn’t care about her feelings. Even if he flirts with other women when she’s not around (NOT hooking up with other chicks) it’s just an outlet for him to release sexual energy. If he’s using his penis to release sexual energy, that’s another issue. Harmless flirting when your girl isn’t around is fine, but openly flirting with other women in front of your significant other isn’t cool at all.

The moral of the story here:  fellas, don’t flirt with other women in front of your girl. It’s disrespectful. And ladies, don’t hit your men. Because if he has knee jerk reaction and hits you back, you’ll be ready to call the police and  Pookie & them.

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